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Nurses: 4 Ways to Secure Your Place at the Table!

“If you’re not at the table, you’re on the menu.”

I love this quote.

To me, the statement means that no matter how much someone agreeing with you might try to represent you, having the unique experience of being you and being where decisions are made means volumes more. All too often, if you aren’t part of the decision making, you will likely get left out, or worse yet, get served on the menu.

One of the things I learned early in my life was the importance of getting involved. In retrospect, I believe I absorbed it through osmosis. I have been surrounded by aunts, uncles, cousins, parents and grandparents who have been tenacious leaders and modeled civic action.

And yes, more than one of us have been labeled as a “trouble maker” in our lives. Today, the world might use the label, ‘Disruptive Innovator’. I prefer that…sounds sexier.

As a young adult, I learned communicating my ideas only got me so far. To most successfully give voice to those suggestions for change, or raising awareness of a critical need, it required being in a position where my input would be heard.

I had to secure a place at the table.

Today, as members of the most trusted profession, it is more important than ever for nurses…each one of us….to get involved and give voice to real solutions backed by evidence and common sense. I’m talking about real, live ordinary nurses…like you and I…stepping up to everyday tables. In our work, in our communities, and in our online social networks.

So, what makes someone the kind of person who gets invited to the table? I recently asked some key people in my professional network and here are a few things they shared:

1. Have something interesting to say.

Don’t you relish sitting next to someone who always has something interesting to say? For most of us, an invitation to any table comes with some lead-time, so there is no excuse not to have some interesting topics in your back pocket. Introverts can do this too!

2. Know what’s going on in your industry.

People enjoy hearing about new, fresh trends and ideas. This boils down to staying curious and being open to new types of thinking and new ways of doing things. This is how you create a reputation of being the ‘go-to’ expert in your field, and become a person whom others seek out to hear about what’s coming around the corner.

3. Show genuine interest in other people.

People love to be asked what they think about things and what ideas they have. Those we find the most engaging are usually those who have the ability to draw us out and make us feel special and interesting. When you purposefully listen, you create trust and rapport. People who create trust get invited back to the table.

4. Study other leaders.

Continually observe key leaders in your networks. Study their communication skills. Take note of strategies they use to engage others to get things done. Apply what you observe. It’s not rocket science, but it does take tenacity.

I’d love to hear from you!  What skills have you developed to help secure a place at the table? What leadership resources have been the most valuable to you?

Carol Bush
Carol Bush

I am a Coach & Mentor to High Performing Health Writers. I co-host The Savvy Scribe Podcast and champion #PlainLanguageWriting.

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3 Comments

  1. Carol
    I wholeheartedly agree with your ideas about having a voice and using it to affect change. We can’t complain about how things are unless we are willing to participate in creating solutions. You inspire me to make sure I ask for and receive “my place at the table”.

    • Carol Bush Carol Bush

      Tina- I am glad to hear the post resonated with you! I do know that you are a nurse leader and greatly appreciate the community you are building for nurse navigators at nursenavigatoradvocate.com 🙂

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